*gotta love the oxymorons

Wednesday, June 25, 2008

JUST MARRIED!


SOMEONE THOUGHT I WAS ZACK'S WIFE. Which is fine.

BUT SOMEONE ELSE THOUGHT WE WERE THE BRIDE AND GROOM. Now thats...interesting.







JUST KIDDING. THIS WAS AT GABE AND JEN'S WEDDING :)

Sunday, June 08, 2008

One fucking experience.

Today was the closest I've come to local behavior since I've been back. I guess it could have been worse.

Have I mentioned why it happened? Shit. Oh wait. Its because I swore.

Vulgarity is a taboo people avoid talking about unless it confronts them and Im not holding back because this one ruined my perspectives on many things.

Today I was at the mall then a little girl was walking by and kicked me so hard I reacted.

"Fuck!" It came so naturally at that point.

Once I realised it was a little girl, I turned away and walked on.
Next thing I knew, her dad came up to me and confronted me.

'Who did u say fuck to?"
I was like "um..."

He repeated it, sarcasm hanging off every single word.
"I asked who you said fuck to"

In between frustration and confusion, I realised he was building up a conversation which might end up with huge quarrel. Well then, I wasnt about to challenge him. Not amongst a bra sale, and least of all, not in a place branded "Triumph"! The irony, at least one of us noticed it.

"Im sorry if I've offended you in any way
I was reacting to my pain
It was an expression"

"She's a little girl and you're a grown up"
"Thats my daughter"

So many comebacks came to mind. Some involved the irony, some involved upbringing. But I kept my mouth shut. Must've been the "triumph" sign all over the place.

I wanted to end off on peaceful terms. So I went ahead with a second apology.

"Again, Im sorry if Ive offended you in any way".

He nods approvingly and struts off.

I want to make this clear that I was apologetic to myself, to the situation and to the insensitivity involved. Those who know me know I dont swear. Well, not in public at least. And the one time I actually did, I got gunned down for it.

To be fair, I see his father pride, although it wasnt even said to her face. Okay, I recognise the word is in many ways very rude. That said, it was something I said to myself. Maybe its because I have been brought up with parents who would not react as such.

From a different perspective, I understand this is culture shock. And much as I am so familiar with the word and the usage of it elsewhere around the world, it is not as socially acceptable here.

Only been back about 6 months and I feel so welcomed and ready to leave for LA.

Friday, April 04, 2008

Can China get its act together?


A rally against China’s stance on Human Rights

Paris-Based Reporters Without Borders have acted against the three and half jail term to human rights activists, Hu Jia and are calling for a boycott of the Beijing Olympics Ceremony in August 2008.

The group is hoping this would create a ripple effect on other global organizations such as the European Union’s decision to freeze its rights dialogue with China.

For almost a year now, the people of China have been humming the tune of We Are Ready, the theme song for the Beijing 2008 Olympic Games countdown celebration. It was and still is China’s golden opportunity to showcase itself to the world, particularly its economic progress since it was given this opportunity in 2002.

In the last six years, China has suppressed more than the outbreak of violence in Tibet. The country has come under harsh media scrutiny. How should the international community react to human rights violations and clamp down of dissidents in China? Or should the world accept that these are internal affairs of China? Are activists right to target the Olympic torch as it travels across the world? Or is there a danger of the games being hijacked by protesters?

International news agencies began with stories on poisoned pet food. Then crippling pollution. Street buns made of cardboard. Toys with lead paint. Executions of corrupt officials. Most recently the human rights issues from Tibet to Shanghai.

Ideally, the World leaders should speak out when the Olympic Torch passes through their countries and condemn China's support of the Sudanese Government's genocide in Darfur, their failure to engage in a meaningful dialogue with the Dalai Lama, and their crackdown on Tibetan protesters and human rights activists. These leaders should make clear that unless progress is made before the Olympics begin, they will not attend the opening ceremony.

Has China equipped itself well as an Olympic country? It is definitely worth considering that despite the international pressures on human rights issues, China shows no sign of being swayed by the arguments. With 5 months, there has been little word about a different strategy. Beijing seems to echo China’s confidence and intent on using the Olympics to flaunt is control of Tibet and an emerging economy. What’s certain is The Olympic host’s hopes that the economic advancement will soften calls for political and social, ethical freedom.

No host will ever be absolutely ready. In 2002, the International Olympic Committee didn't have such a great reputation either. At that time, for the IOC to make a pact with a corrupt quasi-dictatorship nation emerging from third world status -- well, it just seemed like more business-as-usual.

In the meantime, Beijng has honoured promises to sewage disposal, Lithium battery powered buses in the Olympic Village, a review of its Death Reforms by the Human Rights International Committee among other baby steps of improvement.

When it comes to press freedom, the Chinese government has granted more passes to foreign journalists to cover "political, economic, social and cultural matters" and is allowing wider travel, but Tibet is still largely off-limits, as well as other sensitive areas.

In effort to make it a Green Olympics, Beijing planned to plant a total of 12,000 hectares of trees, to increase the green coverage of the urban area to 43 percent and the per capital green area to 48 square metres in 2007.

Nonetheless, China is trying and should continue to do so even after the Olympics, but either way we cut it, there is no doubt it has come a long way.

Wednesday, January 23, 2008

in sickness and health

Boredom has this real karma element to it. At least for me, it has. I've been hanging around the house feeling so absolutely jobless in all senses of the word. Its a good break, I've been told. But there is just so much one can do at home. This experience has given me insight into a housewives lifestyle.

I now know that the Ellen show is featured twice a day, once in the morning and another in the evening. That the Chinese dubbed Hong Kong dramas are repeated at 11am and 1pm respectively and that 24 is officially the channel to follow for the Australian Open. I've toyed with the idea of my t-shirt making but decided it could wait because it required a rather huge capital. The absolute by product of my boredom was buying a origami book yesterday. And its been pretty useful for killing time and well, basic following of instruction.

Just when I thought life couldnt get more boring, I fell ill. I am now down with a flu and have recovered from a sore throat. Otherwise, life is good and the search for the idea job continues.

Monday, January 21, 2008

The job search

I was told I should get this site up and running. I guess it might be better than forcing people to read about my life via email. Thanks Veron for suggesting, otherwise I'd still be rolling that dice wondering what I should do with keeping in touch.

This is incredible. I havent been at this site for so long, the chatbox is dysfunctional. The clocks are still ticking though. The updates probably wouldnt be as frequent because the days so far have been the routine of jon searching and catching up with friends. Its good to be home though. Takes adjusting from Melbourne but its good to be back.

Being back in Singapore means food, shopping (or the lack of) and catching up over coffee. Or being at home watching HBO and Discovery Channel all day. Oh, and reading about American History and US politics.

I miss the bunch from LA, and the crazy bunch from Melbourne. In another 2 years! Meanwhile, its chilling and family time in the red dot of SouthEastAsia.

Monday, December 31, 2007

Happy New Year !

2007 has come to and end. Its been fantastic. One of the best years of my life for so many reasons.

I'll try to keep this site alive. Its been quite the happenings spot someone even commented I asked for an ABS DIET. Thank you adam brown but I think Im doing just fine.

Check ya'll later! With much love, Char.

Sunday, November 04, 2007

Give or take

University teaches so many life lessons:

What kind of boy/man you want/dont want in your life
Which type of coffee you like best
Which hairstyle suits the Asian face best
Which building material is the most appropriate for a lecture theatre
When to visit the crowded places
How to tram evade with skill
How to cycle on side roads with guts
How to use google, which then refers you to Wikipedia

or

that media law is just not up your alley.